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Adventures in Femdom. Sunday, slave scott came over with old videos of him being dominated by Ms Ilsa Strix and Mistress Katia. These are circa 1990 something and these videos were filmed for purchase. Lucky scott had a great pain session with the 2 Mistresses and the second video was Ms Strix solo with scott and 2 other slaves. All slaves wore hoods to protect their identities.

In the first video both Mistresses wore chainmail, black corsets, fishnet stockings ,and tall stiletto boots . It was set in Ms Strix Los Angeles dungeon. Both humiliated scott verbally for about 5 min before Ms Katia took over. Ms K tied slave scott down on a table with about 25 ft of purple rope, cock and all, even the toes of each foot. Legs spread for the future treatment to come. After slut was bound, Ms S came in , attached a parachute harness to slut’s balls and attached a leash which was fastened to a bar beneath the table. Tiny barettes with teeth were attached to the length of the slut’s cock which were slapped with a crop repeatedly and then ripped off with the crop. The slut’s cock was then flogged repeatedly with a leather flogger. The balls , grabbed in the hand , twisted and squeezed. This is the kind of domination a sissy would find unbearable, but not pain slut scott as he is a total masochist.

The next video was Ms Strix only. Dressed in black latex pants, red and black latex corset, a red and black motorcycle hat, and tall pvc boots making the 5′11″ Domme well over 6 foot. 3 slaves were in rope, hoods, and leashes. Each  dominated one after the other. Ms expertly flogged down the row and then caned 6 of the best, leaving 6 distinct cane marks on each ass. There was much more flogging, much more snippy humiliation, much more ball squeezing. My favorite part: Ms decides to have a grand finale contest. All 3 ordered on their knees, 2 kissing each boot and one sucking Ms black strap on. All were ordered to jerk off. The one is the winner, the other two are totally denied orgasm for a whole week. The winner of course was ordered to cum in his hand and eat it. Now that’s really nice cock control isnt it? I’m so happy to soon be the owner of these 2 digitally remixed dvds..Thank you slave scott. Come Venus night you will be in for some major CBT!

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The most ultimate bondage is male chastity of course. It requires less work than Shibari and basic bondage. If you can imagine the intensity of a bound up male in rope and in chastity, then you have the potent mixture of absolute control. One can control the boy and control the cock at the same time.

I have a “model” to practice on. A local sissy boi who has a pantyhose fetish. The little narcissist will only be tied while enfemme. she has been photoed by sexy sandy and the pics are probably up on her site now. See the model “jess”. I had lunch with sissy jessica on Saturday at Farmers Market. she’s a chatty little thing, and the conversation turned to some silly touchy feely bittersweet girl’s softball movie. The little pansy got all misty eyed andI started to laugh…lol. Well I cannot talk either . “The Crow” always makes Me misty eyed too.

munybagsmunson’s gifts arrived today. Silver Guess 3″ mules , a pair of red Guess sunglasses, and a very cool Kathy VanZeeland black studded hobo purse. On top of that was cumtax. muny always calls hung over from Nevada while gambling.Fromhis hotel while his wife is downstairs gambling. I forgot to ask him how “Indy” is. Indy is his African Gray parrot whom he cannot stroke in front of…lol. Many are like this. Some cannot stroke in front of their dogs, cats, and birds.

vodka terry called last night semi sober attoning for the past transgressions .Guilty of calling too fucked up wasting his money and My time with incoherent slurring. I will not take advantage of the drunk even though I practice forced intoxication calls. Last 2 times he was dismissed after 30 min, of course he protested and whined , but I turned a deaf ear. Now he is thankful. the cavey man has just informed Me of Millers new lo cal lo carb beer: Miller 64 . I read shitty reviews mostly from Canadians, eh? Well these guys are beer afficianados after all.

Tomorrow I want to talk about Femdom’s super star Mistress Ilsa Strix. A retired Domme, I was fortunate yesterday to watch pain slut scott’s video tapes of him being dominated by her. It will take a whole post so I’ll save that for tomorrow.

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Poor alex missed out today. You remember alex..the cock controlled and pussy whipped boy who sends e-mails and does assignments from Milovana.com. alex was put on denial yesterday and he asked who he will call next for stroking. I told him to call Princess Heather. Heather was busy and poor alex couldnt wait because of familial constraints. he called back today, Heather not on, and Me on a long call..poor bastard..oh well. There is tomorrow.

For you sissy bitches out there, Im totally promoting sexy sandy’s tranniesintrouble.com. I have made a MAW premium audio on tied up sissies in pink rope, a sissyschool audio, and a post to Sissyville.com. It turns out that sexy sandy is a Hollywood gurl…oh dear me, Im in trouble now! sissy jessica just got done with a trannies in trouble photo shoot this week and I got some of the pics, waiting to post some upon approval. Nice jessica dear, you certainly are a damsel in distress.

I stopped in XXI today on the way from the gym. Pants on sale for 19.90 each. These are stretch capri pants . I got 2 pair, one red, one purple in size 26..eat your heart out . I also got a black satin and lace blouse in black, no sleeve, rucked satin front…very fetishy, eat your hearts out sissies!

On the Femdom front, chastie the woofie dog must be enjoying the hiatus. After being allowed to cum from the release of chastity, he has been rendered useless to Me.. just the usual pain in the ass unattentive guy after orgasm. They are distracted, uninterested, the hallmark of a jacking off male who is cumming too much. How did we put up with it for so long???

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Last night over sushi and sake, sissy boi tiffy told Me he was hooked into simulation now. It’s no wonder. she is a computer nerd flash programmer and web designer. If you saw the 2 part series “Kingfisher” in Criminal Minds, Penelope Garcia ( FBI hacker nerdess), was hooked into simulation with a paranoid schizophrenic serial killer. The nerdess was captivated by the geeky knight in shining armor facade..a romantic dungeons and dragons. She was clearly smitten. One cannot simply look up the site and mull over. You have to join immediately and create an avatar and envoironment. tiffy created a sissy avatar and a Humiliatrix Domme. Envoironments can be anything you create from dungeons to malls. One thing I’m sure is tiffy is on his knees grovelling to some Femdom avatar. From what she told Me, money is being made doing this. Instead of words on the phone, images and text are created. This is wonderfully creative. Watch for this in the years to come. Note you must have a monster machine with lots of gigs, and a fab graphic card. Good Goddess…imagine the possibilities..I cant wait. Well…time to shop for a nice I-Mac now

Earthquake? Guess My ground is made of solid gold. Both cats were beached on the bed sleeping away without a wink. My landlord asked Me…what planet were you on? I answered immediately, Venus of course!

tommy shine box is in Italy for 3 months. I asked him if he wacked somebody and had to disappear Godfather style. he laughed and said he wasn’t Sicilian but Napoletano. Naples has their own Mafia called Il Camora. La Mafia is strictly Sicilian. La Cosa Nostra means “our thing” which is universal within mob speak. tommy just called for a friendly chat without all the crossdressing fluff. I couldnt let him go with out a teasing and denial session though. Denied of course, but he will be performing marital duties on vacation.

Another tommy shine box has entered. One cannot help, NYC accent, foot fetish, what will you make me do with your shoes, who can resist. When you hear the laughter after saying “Ill make ya get yer fukkin shine box, Tommy”, it makes it all worth while. To put a smile on the face of a kinky stroker foot fetish boy. The world can be a happy place!

Thank you chastie, c4MC, woofie, et al for checking in on Me even though you came about 100 times on your release from chastity (FOR NOW). Such good boys become such good subbies by remote

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Before I get to last night’s festivities, I’m gonna give the cavey man a mention. cavey and I have gotten to be pretty good friends on some long calls. cavey has 3 cats; Ama, Smokey, and The Bud Man. A dog too , but the name has escaped Me . Most of the call is life in general with some cockstroking teasing with or without denial. (cavey’s girlfriend threw out his cockcage ). Last conversation was about drunken bouts, his and lately a few times here on Absinthe. Ok this may gross you out but cavey wanted some advice on what to do with crapped in jockey shorts…lol. My advice was to throw the fucking things out because the e-coli will get in the rest of the wash, and if your gonna get Bukowski drunk than keep a journal of it and try to publish it. I drank some Absinthe last week for experimentation. I drank 3 which is more than enough. I don’t recommend it . It is highly addictive and produces a narcotic/hallucinogenic type high. Wormwood and its essence thujone is classified as a convulsant poison.  The chemical analysis in thujone is similar to THC, the active chemical in pot. It’s no wonder Absinthe is more of a passive high , opiate like. In My experimentation were: highly creative intoxicated state, deep disturbing dreams, night sweats, melancholic hangover, joint inflammation, and forgetfulness. Waking from a disturbing dream, My baby finger was convulsing ( It’s speculated that Van Gogh’s epilepsy was triggered by thujone). At any rate, I do not recommend Absinthe unless you like a week long hangover of spaciness. I wont be drinking this very much at all if at all.

Last night I met slave scott and sissy tiffy at a play party. I met scott at our Femdom munch and tiffy at the bondage workshop last week ( she was the slut that was being demoed by Ms Maria). I ordered the slut to buy some pink restraints and the utility gag with ashtray and serving tray. The slut does not like pain. The slut just likes to serve and be humiliated. I brought a pink plastic tiara and earings to match for the slut to wear because the slut could not find a wig as ordered. If your not going to wear a wig as ordered, than you will wear a plastic tiara from CVS pharmacy. Many were amused as the slut was on her knees with service ashtray gag in mouth as I smoked. Some even stopped by to use the utility. The slut was mainly on her knees as I gave some pain to scott: riding crop, English tawse, 2 floggers, cane, 3 zippers torn off, CBT with tiny metal clothespins and violet wand electro play.

After play, it was interesting watching the tiffy transformation from gurl to boy, and the slave scott transformation from masochist to dude. Both are computer geeks and there was at least an hour of geek talk (both use Linux, have Macs, hate Pcs, and are programmers and computer engineers). Personally , I enjoyed My conversation with slave k t about My fave show to date Criminal Minds , old X-Files, and the cyberpunk novels.

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Hello to hanahotlips1 who is away for 2 weeks in Brazil…the lucky bitch!

chastie, aka chaste4MC, aka woofie, aka chaste4MsCass (which needs to be changed to TheDicktator because we have Cassidy now), has received the keys and is allowed to unlock , stroke and cum, and go on hiatus until the next program which is later next month. The program consists of chastity, depersonalization, and tasks for Mistress. chastie will be running, travelling, and doing normal things that a normal male does. he may or may not post to his blog, he has no need for calls or even emails. he is required to contact Me when he is NY bound so W/we may prepare the new program.

sissy anthony_britany called for humiliation the other night. The slut was in panties , bra , and stockings, all in pink and blue, on cam. I took a screen shot for the blog with a big dildo in her mouth but need to figure out how to get it on here…so be patient. Also the windows update is back…it slipped through and unknowingly I downloaded it again only to make My computer crash again today. Now Im back up..get rid of it and trust your virus suite..windows updates blow.

I have just uploaded a new audio to the blog. Its for the porn boys who love Milovana dot com. It’s a cute little Femdom site meant to tease and deny with sexy tease of the day girls. The last girl actually ordered cumsicles! Check out this audio. If you like My style, you will definitely like this. Look to audios and check out “Porn Web Wanker’s Assignment”.

hana be patient..had pc problems all day. Your tan lines are a cummin soon

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7 bondage Mistresses and Masters taught an insightful bondage class yesterday at the local club. My favorites were Mistress Maria and sissy Sandra Gibbons of tranniesintrouble.com.

Maria… Cock and Ball Bondage
Mistress Maria has been aware of her proclivity to bind things and
people since the tender age of 9 when she watched Darth Vader drag
Princess Leia into an “interrogation room” in Star Wars and nearly
exploded with preadolescent hormonal possibilities. Having had her own
quirky sexual awakening, she began tying up her Barbies. Alas, she
suffered from a Jesus-shaped cranial wound and did not pursue the
bondage lifestyle until that wound healed in 1996 and she moved to San
Francisco, followed shortly after by Los Angeles. She played as a
submissive for a few years before being accosted in the parking lot of
Whole Foods by a gentleman who wanted to worship her boots. While
certainly not the first time such a thing had happened, it occurred to
her how much she enjoyed being dominant and has been such in the Los
Angeles scene ever since. Writing as Maria Alexander, she has
published fiction of BDSM sexuality in anthologies such as Blood
Surrender (Avalon Publishing) and Lost on the Darkside (ROC Books).
While she is exceedingly fond of rope bondage, she particularly enjoys
binding men’s privates and has experience with rope, rubber bands,
parachutes and, more recently, chastity devices.

Sandra.. General Bondage
Sandra (Sandy) Gibbons came to L.A. from Colorado to pursue her
interests in bondage and photography. Being a part-time cross
dresser, Sandy usually just looks like a regular guy during the
daytime and is very flexible about gender, answering to either “he” or
“she” depending on her presentation of the moment. Sandy’s had a big
interest in bondage for as far back as he can remember, and is a big
fan of damsel in distress style bondage and photography. He’s been
active in the scene for about five years and has been running the
monthly Rope Bondage Workshop at Threshold
(http://www.threshold.org/public/index.html) for about two years. He
learned about bondage from tying up friends, reading old Harmony
Concepts magazines, and attending workshops. Sandra does not consider
herself a bondage “master” by any stretch, but rather a person who
just loves the subject and enjoys sharing it with others. She
currently spends her days running her web site TranniesInTrouble.com.
(bios provided by Lair deSade)

I had a great time talking with Ms Maria extensively on CBT and chastity. She demoed on a sissy boi named neil who will be in touch with me . This boi will be useful for play and computer work. I loved it when Ms Maria took pink crayon and wrote sissy on her chest. She did some rope bondage on sissies cock, and rubber band cock bondage with the tiniest of “no damage” “goody” hair ties. It made sissies cock all distorted and uncock like! Ms Maria has an interest in tease and denial. We had fun joking about that you can bet. I have to dive into Her dark fiction soon as well.

Sandy instructed on basic rope techniques which is where I begin, and I will be attending her workshops once a month. Sandy’s website tranniesintrouble has some very awesome photos of tied up gurls. Sandy also provides tons of sissy links and bondage links as well. Sandy is a tall slender absolutely stunning c/d. She was in  boy mode yesterday. The only thing that screamed SISSY was her pink watch. If you find a picture of Sandy, imagine this is the ultimate male/femme to Me. Sexy, handsome/pretty, young , tall and slender…gawwwwwd!! What a doll.

Other instructors : Body Harnesses with Silvertar
Arm Restraints with Patrick
Mummification with Lord Dan
Suspension with Jason
and the latest bondage craze:
Pyrex Glass Bondage Accessories with Pyro
unfortunately, I got to see very little of the others. The mummification was done with green saran wrap, so I marveled at the finished work, and also the suspension which looks hella hard. A sexy crew was Pyro…very much a dude type Master. A very nice guy with canine teeth filed vampire…or were they naturally sexy like this, and his entourage of young sexy bound girls. Now you just know this guy is hot I had better stop or I’ll forget My Femdom place!

Coming next post…some pix of hana hotlips tan lines and sissy anthony_britany slutting it up on cam.

Check My affiliates blogroll and sign up for tranniesintrouble through there. That is if you are inclined to sissy damsels in distress or a bondage fan!

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A favorite stroking game I play with stoker boy alex is the “Milovana” game. Milovana.com features webteases weekly. I study a particular webtease making note of details like clothing, background, hair and eyecolor, shoes, lipstick, age of model, and what she has written. alex calls and he is given 15 min to study the webtease. he then closes his browser and calls back and I quiz him on the info I choose. Usually there will be around 8 to 10 questions. he must get at least 6 questions correct before I will let him cum. Sometimes I change the rules and require 100% accuracy. Sometimes I just dont let him cum at all. Right now the web page is up and Im waiting for his call. If he calls before I finish this post, I will post later on his result.

The other night I had a 4hr plus call with the cavey man. It was a hilarious and lively call discussing everything from sissy psyche to AA meetings. he was on beer and bong instead of the usual vodka. he was telling Me about his friend who got so fucked up on vodka that his big ass got stuck in the toilet bowl for 24 hours. The maid came in the next day and had to call the fire department. It took 2 firemen to pull him off the bowl. I imagine his as created a vacuum and he was sealed in. cavey reads Bukowski and we both agreed it sounded like a Bukowski tale. cavey has been reading about woofies program on this blog and decided he wanted to try the program. I cant imagine cavey as the ignore dog. We tried it for 15 min until he got bored and began talking again…lol. Also cavey was ordered into another denial program. I think he had too much to drink and smoke and just forgot! Bad bad boy.

Speaking of vodka, vodka terry called the other night and I had to dismiss him after 30 min. he took that one drink beyond and was too drunk to fuck, stroke, or even talk for that matter. I’m glad he doesnt get that way often. There is still the debate…who can drink who under the table..cavey or vt.

It’s Femdom night again, once a month at the club so I will not be taking calls this evening. Tomorrow afternoon there is a bondage seminar at this club, so I will not be working until the evening on Saturday.

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I have been talking to a local girlie boi about crossdressing , panty hose fetishes, electroplay, and extreme bondage. I met this boi at a local play party and W/we have been chatting about hiking as well. I could use some instruction on shibari and basic rope bondage too. The bondage this boi is into is a bit frightening. The request is elaborate rope tying for hours left alone with tight gagging. Another request of forced intoxication with drugs was addressed. Another request is kidnapping and bound for days with all of the above. This is unsafe practice and should be left to the fantasy phone sex realm. For one thing, 2 days of having a slave bound, gagged, and drugged in My space does not make Me wet. What is the point of it if it doesnt make Me wet. Then he should pay a service top to fulfill this request. Now imagine if I left this boy alone and he died. How would I explain this to the LAPD. See you in about 10 years after My sentence is served. No thanks. The 3 c’s always: safe , sane, and consensual. This is the height of edge play that can very well go over the edge.

Had an actual “talking call” with c4MC last night. The name “woofie” has been deleted, now W/we are back to c4MC. The next dog name will most likely be “bonzo” or “rover”. Requests of doing a monolog has been addressed. I’m throwing it around as I dont like monolog calls. I suggest the premium recordings for that. They are always better as there has been tought in creating them. Some of the themes suggested:

1. tease and denial / guided masturbation

2. cuckolding

3. femdom: CBT

4. femdom: corporal discipline

5. small penis humiliation

6. The Dicktator’s cocksucking sissyslut

7. The Dicktator’s sissy maid

8. small man / giantess

9. verbal humiliation

10. premature ejaculator

I’ll consider, but I need participation on the other end.

I had a call with vodka terry last night . The picture below is little Katie stuck in a tree. The poor little darling kitten. terry of course rescued her. She must have slipped and ended in the odd position. Kittens are always learning , and she was also stuck on the roof ealier…lol

terry and I are still talking electroplay for something new. The beginner e-stim box at Extreme Restraints is the way to go. Then there is the electric fly swatter which I refuse to test on Myself.

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But not for long. The creature is no longer the creature, it, now chastie again. Last night the program ended after 5 hours of phone sitting on the desk, picked up to say things, told to go into chat with Me, (which lasted 3 hours) then finally let off the hook. While in chat I had My playlist up and the phone pointed to the speaker. chastie heard everything from The Cure to David Bowie, to The Gun Club, to Nick Cave, to Iggy Pop’s song “I wanna be your dog”.

So I will talk to chastie tomorrow on feedback of the program. Today I’m relaxing. I just got back from the munch and the bazaar. Im taking it easy tonight because even though an ignore is ignore, it certainly isnt. Figure you are mapping out a program, every day being different from the rest. Often it is boring so you decide to talk to the creature when calls are not coming in. It is not as simplistic as cock control denial instructions where a boy is instructed to do a certain amount of tasks. Ignore calls must stimulate the slut on the other end as well even though you can give a flying fuck. At one point I was chatting with Ms Elizabeth on what We will do with this slut in august…of course the slut heard Me laughing as I type…Then in chat Ms Lilah came in and the slut was outed even further. The slut certainly has entertained everyone so far. Now it comes down to chastity which is the ever constant that fuels this slut. Tomorrow the keys are in the snail mail…very slow boat to Italy.

Back to the munch. I mistakenly without thinking hugged joanie, Ms L’s slut… I forgot protocol. In Femdom, another dominant must ask permission. I always forget..and..shhhhhhh..Im not a herd person..(looks around), I’m part of a tribe but not.

Correction on chasties blog : It is not “Brilliant Minds” but “Criminal Minds”. That’s what I was watching.

Back to bazaar. sissy shari , who is always at the munch was dressed so sweetly in white skirt, a long sleeved (laces) shirt to hide male arms, a white cotton skirt, and 2″ white strappy sandals. shari lost 7 lbs she gleefully announced. Thank your Mistress dear! I ordered South Beach fare!! At any rate, shari bought a present for Me tucked away in her trunk. A bottle of French Absinthe…ohhhhh. I bought a new toy at the bazaar. I have a fondness for single tail whips but have an inferior one from the Stockroom. A single tail whip and cane ( another favorite) vendor was there with spectacular whips, so I bought a very pretty and flexible red single tail. So to make a long story short, Mistress Cassandra enters home lobby in Hollywood carrying a red single tail whip under one arm and a bottle of Absinthe under the other, leopard print Dolce and Gabanna bag slung over shoulder (wish list gift from you know who), life is good…cant ask for more

So where did “gone with the wind” , “the days of wine and roses” originate? More trivia.  Ernest Dowson of course..a romantic poet who died of alcoholism. He also phrased “absinthe makes the tart grow fonder”. A beautiful poem for you :

They are not long, the days of wine and roses:

Out of a misty dream

Our path emerges for a while, then closes

Within a dream.

Very Poe isnt it…..

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