Good boys are hard to find for a FLR. be sure you know what you want!
Before you even consider a female led relationship, begin some intensive researching into what it means to serve a Femdom. A Femdom is a woman in charge of a submissive male who has agreed to follow all instructions through consensual agreement. Cards on table is a two way street. Cards on table are the agreements made mostly by Mistress but up for discussion. Such as sissy maid servitude or strictly male submissive attire. Not every boy will last in a situation that is insisted upon.
Another thing is pain sluttery. A sub must never be put into a “I will do anything to please you” situation when he hates pain or crossdressing. I have yet to meet a submissive who dislikes strap on play. Strap on play can be adjusted , hard and fast to soft, slow, and sensual. The sizes can be a training from small to large.
The submissive male’s duties: to keep house, to cook and serve gourmet food, to care for Mistresses clothing and shoes, to be a cuckold should there be an agreement that cuckolding is on the menu. To escort Mistress and to participate in kinky play parties, being her foot stool and human furniture.
The best privilege of all? To sleep hooded at the foot of her bed and awakened by a little bell. Bring me my coffee, boy. And be quick about it?
Mistress Cassandra 1-800-730-7164
I can’t think of anything sexier, more alluring and sensual than a woman who has a man under her complete control.
than you have good taste!
I want to be in female lead relationship. I won’t do any pain situations. Strap on I’m interested as well as crossdressing.
Ms. Cassandra,
I do love the intricate and subtle distinctions that you explain to your slutty callers. It is a true gift to those wanting a Femdom experience yet not knowing exactly what that entails. The fact that it is not ‘one size fits all’, lol, means that you are a Mistress who can meet the needs of many different kinds of callers and they should relax, knowing they will be well taken care of in your beautiful and capable hands!
xo Audrey
Thank you Audrey. I’m sure you are very capable as well 🙂
This is all wonderful information for subbies who are thinking about a female-led relationship. I like how you make it clear that not all activities are suitable for all men. Cards on the table is indeed a two-way street, and boys should take the opportunity to speak up while they have it!
So much more information to gather as well Ms Piper as you know!