Ms. G and slave r are real time friends who have been practicing teasing and denial and chastity for years. slave r is interviewed today.

M.C.: When did you first realize you were a candidate for chastity?

slave r: i think when i first heard about/read about male chastity, i couldnâ??t believe such a thing existed and it seemed incredibly sexy to meâ??to be so under the control and at the whim of a powerful Woman. Itâ??s one of the times in my life where the reality was better than the fantasy. Incredible.

M.C.: What is the longest you have been locked? How did it feel to finally cum?

slave r: iâ??m not sure of how long iâ??ve been TOTALLY locked (that is, not let out at all, even for teasing). i believe it was over 30 days. This is, believe it or not, MUCH easier to deal with that being locked, let out for teasing, brought to the edge of orgasm, and then laughingly locked back up (my Mistress likes to laugh at me, which just turns me to putty, as You know, Mistress Cassandra :).i have also been locked for well over a week (was it 10 days, Maâ??am?) while my Mistress sent You the key to Her cock. This, too was enormously sexy and torturousâ??thank You, Maâ??am.The longest iâ??ve been teased without release, and then locked up, except for stroking and teasing, is 104 days. This was, by turns, astoundingly sexy, awful, extreme, beautiful and very difficult.If itâ??s been under 30 days, for me, the first orgasm feels amazing (especially on the utter surprise of hearing my mistress say â??Yesâ?? when iâ??m beggingâ?¦a laughing â??Noâ?? being the more common answer). The SECOND feels incredible. Not sure why, but the second is like a full-body release (sometimes the first is, too) that leaves me exhaustedâ??not able to move for sometimes 30+ minutes. The surprise of hearing â??yesâ?? (like when You allowed me to come while licking Your incredible ass when Mistress and i were over for a visit) is a primal, beautiful moment of total submission where youâ??re totally at the whim of the Mistress. Itâ??s incredible being that out of control, that trusting, and yet so close to the controlling Presence, deciding your release. Again, thank You, Mistress Cassandra. It was a surprising joy to get to lick my unexpected come off Your floor.Over 30 days, the first orgasm feels great, but it hurts quite a bit right after the full release. Which my Mistress seems to enjoy as wellâ??ha.

M.C.: ((smiles)) What types of devices do you have. Which one do you prefer and why.

slave r: Wow. My Mistress has a lot of toys (which, She likes to remind me, i am one of). W/we have a CB2000 (two, actually, one clear, one black). A lovely handmade German metal cock cage. A custom-made tube that locks through the PA piercing on Mistressâ?? cock. The â??Houdiniâ?? locking cuff. And a full, old style chastity belt (that locks around the waist and would be truly impossible to get out of, ii thinkâ?¦not that iâ??m trying so hard-ha).They all have things about them that are appealing.The CB 2000â??s (and their new models, as well) are probably the best for super long term lock ups, as they are light, comfortable (except when Mistress doesnâ??t want that-ha), can be worn even at the gym, as so on. With plastic locks, they are the option for travel.The German Metal cage is just awesome-looking. Sexy in its intense and industrial lockup look. Stainless Steel is beautiful and itâ??s also great for medical/electric torture, which my Mistress is very fond of. Thereâ??s nothing quite like being locked up with an electric dildo and cage pulsing away while youâ??re helpless in bondage. The metal one also hurts the most with a hard-on (though the CB models do, as well). Truly torturous pain, if Mistress makes you take a Viagra with one of these on.The tube is sexy, and it locks through the PA piercing, which is very intense looking. Itâ??s hard not to feel owned with a padlock through the head of the cock. Sexy.The Houdini is nice and the end if open, so Mistress can tease the tip of Her cock AND keep it locked up, which She likes.The full metal Chastity belt is, by its nature, the most extreme and intense. Itâ??s VERY sexy for parties/short term, but it would grow very uncomfortable and perhaps cause trouble with long term hygiene if left on too long. Itâ??s also conductive, and is great for electric play.

M.C.: What are the benefits of being locked and kept?

slave r : Itâ??s always been a dream of mine to be controlled by a powerful Womanâ??itâ??s hard to feel more controlled than by giving someone else total control over your sexual release. i was counting when You sent the interview and i realized i have not had an orgasm without permission (not have i touched what used to be my cock for pleasure) in over six years. The only times iâ??ve come have been at my Mistressesâ?? (or Yours, Mistress Cassandra, when She has lent me out to Youâ??again, thank You, Maâ??am) command. Thatâ??s heady. And sexy. iâ??ve very grateful to the Women who have allowed me to serve them. Itâ??s a beautiful experience

M.C.: Does being denied orgasm heighten your perceptions? Increase creativity?

slave r: Yes, i believe so, Maâ??am. My Mistress likes to use the â??orgasm as rewardâ?? technique for a performance incentive on my part. Of course, She frequently decides against my release, but the only chance i have AT release is to meet Her performance expectations. iâ??m a better, more productive, happier, more loved person for Her control.

M.C.: Is there anything you may add for boys who are considering chastity? Starter kits? LOL

slave r : Start slowly and always communicate fully. One of the sexiest things about a power exchange relationship is how honest Y/you have to be with Y/your partner(s) and how sexy is it to fully share Y/yourself with O/others. Find a Woman who loves to control boys and girls. And do whatever She says-ha!

M.C.: Awesome!!!! Thats it boy, and thanks to B/both of Y/you xox

slave r: Thank You so much for the opportunity, Mistress Cassandra. Itâ??s always a pleasure to be of any service to You. Humbly-slave r