Q’s last call was an endurance test, devised to see how much water he could take in the jug which was attached to the ball parachute. The lock  which was purchased from Domme Depot is heavy enough. Right now q is enjoying Europe as the good . . . → Read More: CBT Gets The Water Jug]]>

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CBT WITH A WATER JUG

Q’s last call was an endurance test, devised to see how much water he could take in the jug which was attached to the ball parachute. The lock  which was purchased from Domme Depot is heavy enough. Right now q is enjoying Europe as the good boy should. he will be ripe for chastity when he gets home. I directed him to get rid of the beard so his wife could get more pleasure and comfort with pussy pleasure.

PRO DOMMES ADD TO THE SUBMISSIVE MINDSET

Jeffie is off to see a Pro-Domme on Saturday, and b is off to see one today. b’s Mistress is a Governess, and she will administer some heavy duty corporal discipline with bare handed spanking and a hairbrush.I sent efie to Germany to a rock star Domme last year crossdressed and in chastity. I condone and encourage it. It takes care of the kink I cannot do. Jeffie likes rope bondage with cock control especially. I gave permission but he must stay in the cage and is not allowed to cum. He’s been chaste for 22 days now and it will stay that way until I’m satisfied with the time. he gave me a great idea, and now hes sorry he did:

JEFFIE SPOUTS FORTH BUT DOES NOT SPURT

“What the hell, I really did not want to write this thought because I do not want to give you any more ideas, but hopefully can use it on someone else.  I leave an email daily stating has many days chaste I have been.  What at some point you decide that after so many days, the count will now go backwards until release is granted.  If you decided today that I am to count backwards, I would have 22 days left until orgasm is granted for a total of 44 days.  I do not know what would be worse, not knowing or that I can release is X amount of days.  I prefer the not knowing since when release is granted it is a real surprise.  You could even mess with a chaste sub by having them start the count up again.  Make them keep perfect math or a penalty is given.  Just a thought.”

TESLA AND FEMDOM

Did you know that Nikola Tesla was chaste? He claimed celibacy was very helpful to his scientific creativity. I’m reading alot about Tesla now that I’m doing tachyon research. He often had lucid dreams and pictured his inventions in minute detail before he invented them. He also predicted that women would eventually be the dominant sex. How’s that for clairvoyance? Wikipedia has a great bio on him.

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It has been a very busy week and I have finally gotten a moment to blog and post q’s toys of the evening for last Sunday’s send off call. I just love how orderly he is. I had him parade on cam on hands and . . . → Read More: Get Your Free Phone Session For Christmas]]>

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THE CBT PAIN TOY COLLECTION

It has been a very busy week and I have finally gotten a moment to blog and post q’s toys of the evening for last Sunday’s send off call. I just love how orderly he is. I had him parade on cam on hands and knees locked in the humbler. I took calls in the meantime and watched the show. After that more tease and denial, only allowed release with his wife. 3 more hour massages and some books for Christmas. Now My question is who bought that office chair which has not arrived yet, and the question is will it arrive.

FREE PHONE FUCK CALLS FOR ENCHANTRIX MEMBERS

If you are an Enchantrix member, Ms Ally is offering free phone fantasy calls for all members. I will be taking calls for awhile tomorrow so be sure to give me a call. Send Me an i.m or an email to set up a call, or simply just pick up the phone and call dispatch. I’m not certain if it will work with click to call.

NO CHASTITY TRAINING FOR TERRY BOY

Now this made Me lol. Good ole vodka terry keeps insisting on going into chastity again. I won’t have it. This time he wants his girlfriend next door involved with chastity keyholding. I wont have it. He says he wont remove the cage again. I wont have it. You dont lock up, not check in when you are supposed to, take the cage off without My permission, disappear for a few weeks, call back and want more caging. I wont have it. So terry boy, the answer is a big NO, and that is they say is that. You can, however call for a nice spanking with stroking, and be a panty boy for Me. I will not put you back in chastity. End o story!

Merry Christmas to all

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This blog is screaming for a ruined orgasm page, and so be it. So far stroke pet alex has written the first essay. The next play time with q will be ruining the orgasm. I’ve done this many a time with one boy who would . . . → Read More: It’s A Nice Day For A Ruined Orgasm]]>

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YOUR ORGASM NEEDS MORE CONTROL

This blog is screaming for a ruined orgasm page, and so be it. So far stroke pet alex has written the first essay. The next play time with q will be ruining the orgasm. I’ve done this many a time with one boy who would “glob” for Me, sometimes numerous times. As said before, this coming year will have alot of them. In “Uniquely Rika” the ultimate Femdom book, she calls it the “surprise orgasm”, and gives a few instructions on how to “choke it off”. This book is mandatory read for anyone into tease and denial, and subs who are very serious on pleasing their Mistress. This book is written by Ms Rika, a real time Dominant.

A LITTLE CBT HELPS AN ON THE VERGE ORGASM

One technique is to squeeze the head. The underside of the cock needs intense squeezing and pinching. I say twist that little piece of skin to bring you back to earth. I would then slap it around a bit. No stroking or touching in any other manner. Another technique is to thumb with both thumbs the urethra and thumb it hard on that cock head. Painful but effective. Have you gone over? Then the orgasm is successful which means the ruined orgasm is unsuccessful.

NEW RUINED ORGASM PAGE

Do check out My new ruined orgasm page for a more psychological view of the ruined o. More essays will be added the more I experiment with willing and useful boys.

THANKING EVERYONE FOR THE FUN TIME ON MY MISTRESS OF THE DAY EVENT

Much thanks to all of the boys that made My Mistress of the day event fun and exciting. I was especially flattered and entertained by m, Ms Hunter‘s boy who said he enjoyed My James Joyce style blog writing (?). Does that mean it’s a free form esoteric ramble in Irish tradition or just academic. I remember opening Finnegan’s Wake and then closing it , using it as a pedestal under the bed bar…or was that the complete works of Milton. I suppose I will find out when I move.

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I had the pleasure of torturing todley, the cuckold stroker boy who cams with rubber bands and rope. Oh you remember; the heirloom tomato balls, the hoodoo dickie? His wife was out  cuckolding him with her white male bull. Poor little dicked todley could not get those rubber . . . → Read More: Cuckold, CBT, Stroker Man, and One Ruined Orgasm]]>

THE CUCKOLD EATS HIS CUM

I had the pleasure of torturing todley, the cuckold stroker boy who cams with rubber bands and rope. Oh you remember; the heirloom tomato balls, the hoodoo dickie? His wife was out  cuckolding him with her white male bull. Poor little dicked todley could not get those rubber bands off so he could not stroke. He had no problems fucking his ass with the extra large dildo though. He  wanted to insert a bare q-tip in his little dicked pee hole but I stopped him because the cotton on the q-tip is not recommended. Unfortunately he only had thick baggies. If you boys want to do q-tip play, I advise a surgical glove or a very thin baggie. No bare q-tips, boys. The grand finale was cum eating. Yummy for you, icky for me.

ON THE CHASTITY FRONT

b could not get his big balls to fit in that cb-6000. Now come on b, bigger balls have done it. There are plenty of tutorials online. I just think b is afraid to be a chastity slave. Anyways, I did suggest he shave the area around the balls and call Me for round two. So far I think he is just procrastinating.

q’s wife has been ill so he has not had an orgasm since I released him. He is only allowed to cum with her. He is not allowed to stroke unless I tell him to. I fooled him on his departure call. I said I was thinking of letting him cum upon demand. Nope, too bad.

AN UNFULFILLING RUINED ORGASM

stroke pet alex called for a very nice jack off session. I like him to make up stories as a contest to see if he wins an orgasm. This was a hot story of leg and stocking worship, a bit of trampling, and sissy panties upon demand. Unfortunately his last edge went over and stopped in time. Poor alex had a ruined orgasm. Soon after he instant messaged  saying that a ruined orgasm made him feel most submissive after the session.

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22 days and counting for that big orgasm blast? Speaking of blasts, I hope you have been having one during our free 10 min call month. Be sure to collect yours with Me on Dec. 1st. Mark your calendar or . . . → Read More: Two Important Rules Of Chastity]]>

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Get Free 10 Minute Phone Fantasy Calls

22 days and counting for that big orgasm blast? Speaking of blasts, I hope you have been having one during our free 10 min call month. Be sure to collect yours with Me on Dec. 1st. Mark your calendar or better yet, just call every day during this promo. If you are into My game and not cumming , I will grant one on Dec. 1st.

A Chastity Slave’s Journal

Good boy q has just posted on his blog “What is a good chastity slave“. Rule number one is no cheating. All bad boys know that cheating give rise to a useless emotion called guilt. Channel the trials and tribulations of chastity into tasks. Rule number two is total obedience. I love the word insubordination. It reminds Me of a bad schoolboy bending over to grab his ankles for a caning. In this case since I cannot reach through the phone to cane, and caning oneself is not recommended, complete dismissal would be in order. I have done that a number of times without notice.  Read the last post on his blog:
q’s blog

Released From Chastity

Good boy q was released on Sunday and flew out on Monday for 3 weeks. I played with him starting with the posture collar and nipple clamps. We then moved on to the parachute with weights and the electro box with pads and anal plug. Good boy q then earned the right to stroke with the fleshlight and remain free range for the rest of the night. Monday afternoon he was on the plane. Upon departure, he bought Me a series of massages for My birthday on the 16th, and threw in 3 Terminator movies for good measure! I expect a landslide of gifts for My birthday, so get busy!

A Sissy Goes Shoe Shopping

Sissy fantasy calls are on the top of My list and it has been a sissy fantasy weekend. Had bob slobber stumbling over panties and b threatened with more shopping. b asked if I considered him a crossdresser…well duh…you’re in panties aren’t you? you want a pink cocklock don’t you? I had one gurl out shoe shopping at a warehouse. I had her go to the sale racks and try on every single pair of shoes in her size . This was a long call. There were 50 or more pair tried on. We decided on 2, one pair of silver ballerina flats and a pair of purple stiletto pumps. Very productive!
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This coming Friday night I will be at a play party wearing the cruel leather corset given to Me by q. I will be watching a demo on this fabulous CBT torture device called “The Cock and Ball Torture Board”. You can see this little goody on madame-s dot . . . → Read More: CBT Never Had It So Good]]>

You Need CBT Discipline

This coming Friday night I will be at a play party wearing the cruel leather corset given to Me by q. I will be watching a demo on this fabulous CBT torture device called “The Cock and Ball Torture Board”. You can see this little goody on madame-s dot com., or just google it! This mean implement is used with a Folsum unit or other tens units providing you use tens to folsum plug leads. There are 6 plug in points. It looks well built and sturdy. The cost is $214.00. I’ll give a full report on it by Sunday. Perhaps the Mistress using it will give Me a go on her sub. I can imagine using this when a boy is taken out of the cage for tease, torture, and denial! Being shocked into orgasm denial is absolutely a favorite.

Speaking of subs, I met a very sexy and brainy boy at a munch yesterday. This boy is working for his PhD in Math at Cal Tech, just moved out from the east coast 2 weeks ago, and before that studied abroad in England. Guess where. This boy is inexperienced in the D/s world and has only experienced Pro-Domme sessions. I’ll be having lunch with this tall , slender, and good looking boy on the weekend.

I just got an email from an old sissy tranny friend  from the UK. She’s the one who sent Me Shrigley’s Rules book. That’s the Scottish artist with the very black humor. I got her hooked on Fringe and she’s now into the second season. She wrote:

“I enjoy reading your blog. Most people who start these things
purely for business reasons give up. Clearly you have a great
interest in the subject matter ”

Thank you J.X

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That’s one of My cats. Roonie nestled under freshly laundered bedding. He actually knows when sheets go down and sheets come up. He waits on the bed for the arrival and I shower him with clean warm sheets for burrowing. He becomes an eskimo cat then peeks his head out for . . . → Read More: The Humbler Will Have Another Taker]]>

Spooky Roonie

That’s one of My cats. Roonie nestled under freshly laundered bedding. He actually knows when sheets go down and sheets come up. He waits on the bed for the arrival and I shower him with clean warm sheets for burrowing. He becomes an eskimo cat then peeks his head out for air. Precious! You would love to wait on this bed for the cane or crop arrival wouldn’t you?

Now for the daily news. The slut called and was intrigued with electroboy’s post on the humbler. The slut is ordering one for amusement and punishment. As many of you recall I had this slut locked in shackles for a week as it was free range in it’s apartment. I sent the keys in a lock box, and the slut had the lock box on it’s table waiting for My instruction. It seems the slut likes this type of restraint. One time maintenance came to it’s door and the clanging slut had to instruct them to come back. I suppose you think why couldn’t it tease that cock. Because he has always been in chastity for Me. I guess it should expect tons of fun while in Germany. We did work on another fiction chapter where the slut is dressed in lingerie with a blow up doll latex mask giving Brandon a blow job. Since the slut is sissy for Mistress, it had to deal with the problem of Mistress becoming bored with the slut. This is where the slut excels. If it does not please Mistress it will be kicked to the curb with a shopping cart.

vodka terry called yesterday hornier than I have ever seen. After 7 days of chastity and no stroking, it did not take long.

Next post: Lil larry’s lil dickie, icy hot with an anthill…lol. lil larry is now lilly for short, omg, you wont believe this cuckold story. I’ll save it for Sunday

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