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CBT Never Had It So Good

Mistress Cassandra — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 22:04:06 +0000

You Need CBT Discipline

This coming Friday night I will be at a play party wearing the cruel leather corset given to Me by q. I will be watching a demo on this fabulous CBT torture device called “The Cock and Ball Torture Board”. You can see this little goody on madame-s dot com., or just google it! This mean implement is used with a Folsum unit or other tens units providing you use tens to folsum plug leads. There are 6 plug in points. It looks well built and sturdy. The cost is $214.00. I’ll give a full report on it by Sunday. Perhaps the Mistress using it will give Me a go on her sub. I can imagine using this when a boy is taken out of the cage for tease, torture, and denial! Being shocked into orgasm denial is absolutely a favorite.

Speaking of subs, I met a very sexy and brainy boy at a munch yesterday. This boy is working for his PhD in Math at Cal Tech, just moved out from the east coast 2 weeks ago, and before that studied abroad in England. Guess where. This boy is inexperienced in the D/s world and has only experienced Pro-Domme sessions. I’ll be having lunch with this tall , slender, and good looking boy on the weekend.

I just got an email from an old sissy tranny friend from the UK. She’s the one who sent Me Shrigley’s Rules book. That’s the Scottish artist with the very black humor. I got her hooked on Fringe and she’s now into the second season. She wrote:

“I enjoy reading your blog. Most people who start these things
purely for business reasons give up. Clearly you have a great
interest in the subject matter ”

Thank you J.X

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The Mistress Dilemma

Mistress Cassandra — Sun, 09 May 2010 01:01:14 +0000

Not For You!

Over and over I am asked: Why are you still living without a slave. Why do you not have a polyamorous household. Why don’t you, since you are in the lifestyle ,have domestic service sissies dusting and mopping? The answer is simple. Analogy: do you go out , pick up a girl, fuck her and then move in and get married? In rare cases yes. Do you go to a club, see a selection of girls, choose a mate for life? Not likely. The answer is, in this lifestyle, just because a Mistress has a selection of countless “slaves”, does not mean any of these slaves are quality slaves. Remember, in the vanilla world it is much easier to meet a sexual attraction of just fuck and suck. In the kink world we are dealing with a host of fetishes that may not be compatible with My fetish. We are dealing with people of high intelligence and extreme needs and wants. What is written in fiction, what makes you jerk off with fantasy may not be your daily needs.

While dealing with a slave, like any other male, I must be sure to constantly keep the sexual interest at a peak, otherwise it will deteriorate to boredom. Note that a true slave which is very rare, will simply accept his place. This is atypical. Now why do I need to work so hard and jump through hoops. I prefer to live alone, be independent, play with phone fantasy. and play party sluts.

A fleet of sissies cleaning My house will be topping from the bottom to the point where I will bitch slap them out on the street for the world to see. Something they may fantasize but would not like in reality. Well trained maids are something of Ms Silk.

In essence, until I meet the perfect slave I search and do not settle. Does this answer your question?

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On Chastity Inquiries: Proper Protocol

Mistress Cassandra — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 18:38:40 +0000

. Back in the 80′s when generic phone fucking started, it was the recordings of the heavy breathing type. That was before My time but I know faking orgasms and moaning loud with screaming must have disturbed many a neighbor when it finally went vox. In fact, a famous phone sex book came out called “Vox” by Nicholson Baker. It is a hilarious book about a conversation between a PSO and a client . Then enter the Mistress and domination genre. This is quite a hit with guys who like the dream but due to different constraints, cannot receive discipline in real time. The new kid on the block for phone must definitely be chastity training. Keyholding has been around for awile, I imagine Keyholders placing adds and newsgroup posts. Chastity today is very popular Im happy to say. Orgasm denial and cock control have always been a part of the D/s scene. It flourished in the phone fantasy world especially with the stroker being on cam. Sissy training has always been around. Crossdressers go way back in history.

Proper protocol is expected in approaching a Keyholder for the very first time:

Read the site thoroughly and know what is expected of you before you send a letter of inquiry and submission. Do not instant message for information. It takes too long to explain the dynamics of chastity on msgr. I.M. is for contact while in chastity and for Mistress to spot check you. It is much better to send a daily email while in chastity so Mistress can post to her blog to share your progress. Lastly, be sure you are serious about training!

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Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a ten minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
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Egbert Does Chastity

Mistress Cassandra — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 16:38:10 +0000

It’s been awhile since I have posted, but tease and denial will always be here. I can guarantee that. Also I can guarantee chastity training will prevail in My realm as it is now, in real time with that boy from Arizona.This boy is starting off with the usual CB3000, and is already complaining about not being able to touch or cum. Tough titty. I have a real lock on there. One that I already had . I sent him off last week with a locked cock and I have the keys. No cheating. Since he lives a few states away, it wont be a problem. Let’s face it though. If chastity is no longer desired, nothing will keep that cage on, not his Femdom Mistress, not his commitment, contract, absolutely nothing. The padlock cutter comes out. I may add, I did not give him the benefit of cumming before he left either. I told him it will enhance his clarity while studying and doing his equations. A very fascinating, submissive, and brilliant boy!

It’s also been a Giantess week! I did an original call with a tiny boy who is thrust into Mistresses lovely pussy riding the head of a big black cock! On top of that the tiny boy was wearing pink sissy panties to cover up his little cock. The grand finale: the gush of an enormous amount of cum creating a tsunami for the tiny boy to ride on the smallest of surfboards…lol..I love My job! Ordinary phone sex ? Nahhhh

For those of you who have been following, Bigfoot, aka Little Carmine, My beautiful sleek polydactyl cat had lost the kidney failure fight. He was put to rest on Friday. I will take his and Drella’s ashes to Zion Park or Pt Reyes in the spring to give them back to mother earth.

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A Domme A Dozen

admin — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 23:42:37 +0000

That’s Los Angeles. I call it the Femdom bandwagon. There are so many pro-dommes down here it could make a sub’s head spin. Now the question is, who’s gonna do it for you. Of course you have to pay, and the lifestylers are getting pretty annoyed with it all. Take note: most prodommes are submissive in their realtime relationships. So why does a boy continue to pay them? Simply fantasy. Many boys live in the head, and if a beautiful sexy “Mistress” is hiding behind a Domely veil, then so be it.

Alot has to be said for lifestylers. Im beginning to throw around that maybe I should give that all up. Often a sissy Mistress is not taken seriously at all…simply , we are not all about whips and chains. The scene is pretty laughable. It’s like a meat market…didnt your mother tell you it’s impolite to stare? Then it’s the “do me ” factor. Some sub, after a scene I had with a couple I like to work with, walked up to Me displaying his ass, said “spank me”. I laughed in his rude face and say”fuck you”. It’s the DO ME factor I hate.

Cock control works best over the phone. Chastity ranks second. There is an element of cheating, of course, but for the most part, a boy who calls is serious about his fetish even though it is a private session. It’s the live meeting, and live sessions that will separate the men from the boys, and the real Dommes from the McDommes. Off the soapbox now.

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Foot And Stocking Fetish Friday?

admin — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 21:49:46 +0000

Black Pumps Black Thigh Highs

There is another one for poor frustrated stroke pet alex who was denied orgasm again. If you look close, you can almost see My……That reminds Me; I have pictures to post of that slutty sissy hana hot lips. hana is one major party gurl as everyone knows.

Moving right along with chastity jack. So far he’s been a very good boy providing daily reports. I was impressed to know he has done sessions with the awesome Ilsa Strix when She was pro-domming. Now She is retired and married to a famous director who was Her client. From what I hear She has him sissified and pussy whipped big time. This is another perk of Femdom . Eventually retiring and hooking up with a wealthy dude. A Domme can have it all: a slave husband who is wealthy and whom she loves . Many Dommes cannot love though, as there is a certain degree of narcissism in their makeup, but a well adjusted Domme certainly can.

Chastity jack has some very interesting and introspective reports. I love bring out the creativity in everyone. jack wrote: (also jack provides awesome links for chastity enthusiasts)

Mistress Cassandra,

i’m so glad i reached You before my CB-2000 fell off completely. Only my left sac was anchoring the CB and i was pretty sure i could twist the CB off without even cutting the lock–as i was able to show You on webcam. If we had let it go on much longer, the CB probably would have just fallen off.

i thought that last bit of tightening i did, while i was doing my own three-day chastity break-in before starting your program, had solved the problem. It had come up during the break-in. After i had spent several hours working intently on my computer, i stood up, unzipped, and reached down to adjust things down there and the whole CB, lock and all, came off in my hand.

It’s strange. i start off hating the CB, but once i get used to it, i feel a certain security in its presence, a pride that i am still wearing it, and, of course, a great desire to keep my chastity commitment to You. i was upset when it seemed i might lose my chastity.

As a temporary solution for this week, I’m adding tie wraps to tighten the two rings together to keep my balls properly trapped. This tip comes from Lady Jenny who runs the hilariously named site: BadPenis.com! (See http://www.badpenis.com/betterfit.htm .) Lady Jenny is passionate about controlling men’s masturbation and making them wait for sexual gratification. If you buy a chastity device from her at BadPenis.com she will hold your keys for free, if you wish, and even provide limited Femdom training. Several years ago I was submissive to Lady Jenny by email but I wanted something more personal and intense. (Which is how I eventually came to you, Mistress.)

From what I can tell, Lady Jenny is also the moving force behind the Exobelt. She is the webmistress for both BadPenis ( http://www.badpenis.com/ )and Exobelt ( http://www.exobelt.com/Default.htm ). Her partner, Lady Samantha, does the modeling for both sites.

It seems almost too good to be true, and a little scary to boot, that there are Women like Lady Jenny, Mistress Lori, Mistress Sarah, Yourself, and no doubt others who hold male chastity as more than a Femdom sideline, hold it in fact as a key component of Female Domination.

i enjoyed our session today—a fine balance between pain and pleasure. i’m feeling more comfortable with how our sessions work. i like giving myself over to as if it is You who is holding the crop or the whip or the prod. Then going from an edge and back into chastity is definitely evil. i thought i was doing a good job being cool on Day 3 about denial, but You stirred things up down there.

Best,
jack

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The Dog Boy's New Career

admin — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 21:12:17 +0000

Friday’s call was lockdown plus one of nine tasks. The first task is in it’s own words:

Then the first of 9 tasks was revealed. it was required to open a NiteFlirt account there and then. The account was opened, four Listings were set-up, and telephone and credit card details provided.

it is going to be standing by the telephone every night for the next 9 weeks, taking calls and earning money for The Dicktator. The Dicktator will be taking every cent. it is now The Dicktator’s phone sex slave.

The Dicktator has the password to the account so that She can monitor the amount of money in the account, redesign the listings, change the password, etc.

The next call is on Monday during which progress will be monitored. At any time The Dicktator may also want a 10-minute roleplay call, or to put it into the dog suit for another live video stream. Things are going to be really busy for the next 9 weeks.

Essentially what the dog will be doing is consulting. Since it’s handle is “serveinchastity”, it will take calls from curious men who wish to learn the chastity lifestyle. Since it has plenty of time on it’s hands, it will be signed into nite flirt most waking hours. it will be signed in when we are on a call so it can make money for Me , and spend money for a call with Me. it is locked in chastity for a whole month and I posess the keys. it will learn how to edit the listings to attract clients. it is a bright dog , so Im confident this dog will do well. The dog had a cock control call for 10 minutes last week and was denied.

I took a bit of time off to relax at a play party and do some electroplay with a slave who just purchased an ErosTek with uretheral sound and butt plug. This new Eros is quite the amazing toy and needs to be introduced to My collection of pain toys. I was surprised to see 6 girlie bois at the party. I believe it is a year of coming out for many. More and more I am noticing the feminization of the male creature!

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