{"id":1161,"date":"2010-05-08T18:01:14","date_gmt":"2010-05-09T01:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/?p=1161"},"modified":"2010-05-08T18:01:14","modified_gmt":"2010-05-09T01:01:14","slug":"the-mistress-dilemma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/the-mistress-dilemma\/","title":{"rendered":"The Mistress Dilemma"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1162\" style=\"width: 210px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Tps0024_0101.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1162\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1162\" title=\"Mistress Cassandra 1-800-730-7164\" src=\"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Tps0024_010-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1162\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Not For You!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Over and over I am asked: Why are you still living without a slave. Why do you not have a polyamorous household. Why don&#8217;t you, since you are in the lifestyle ,have<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sissyschool.com\" target=\"_blank\"> domestic service sissies<\/a> dusting and mopping? The answer is simple. Analogy: do you go out , pick up a girl, fuck her and then move in and get married? In rare cases yes. Do you go to a club, see a selection of girls, choose a mate for life? Not likely. The answer is, in this lifestyle, just because a Mistress has a selection of countless &#8220;slaves&#8221;, does not mean any of these slaves are quality slaves. Remember, in the vanilla world it is much easier to meet a sexual attraction of just fuck and suck. In the kink world we are dealing with a host of fetishes that may not be compatible with My fetish. We are dealing with people of high intelligence and extreme needs and wants. What is written in fiction, what makes you<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cockcontrol.com\" target=\"_blank\"> jerk off<\/a> with fantasy may not be your daily needs.<\/p>\n<p>While dealing with a slave, like any other male, I must be sure to constantly keep the sexual interest at a peak, otherwise it will deteriorate to boredom. Note that a true slave which is very rare, will simply accept his place. This is atypical. Now why do I need to work so hard and jump through hoops. I prefer to live alone, be independent, play with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pleaseyourmistress.com\" target=\"_blank\">phone fantasy<\/a>. and play party sluts.<\/p>\n<p>A fleet of sissies cleaning My house will be topping from the bottom to the point where I will bitch slap them out on the street for the world to see. Something they may fantasize but would not like in reality. Well trained maids are something of Ms Silk.<\/p>\n<p>In essence, until I meet the perfect slave I search and do not settle. Does this answer your question?<\/p>\n<p>www.thedicktator.com<\/p>\n<p>For an <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.voxerotic.com\" target=\"_blank\">erotic  phone<\/a> session with Mistress Cassandra, call <strong>800-730-7164<\/strong><br \/>\nMust be 18+<br \/>\nCalls  are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum<br \/>\nDiscreetly billed to your credit card<br \/>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ratemycall.com\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.ratemycall.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--subscribe2--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over and over I am asked: Why are you still living without a slave. Why do you not have a polyamorous household. Why don&#8217;t you, since you are in the lifestyle ,have domestic service sissies dusting and mopping? The answer is simple. 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