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\"How<\/a>

How to be a star submissive<\/p><\/div>\n

FLR<\/h3>\n

A tendonitis flare up kept me off of the computer, but now I’m back. Be grateful, and yes I was thinking of you believe it or not \ud83d\ude42 Anyways, back to the soapbox. How to be the best submissive slave <\/a>in a Femdom FLR<\/a>. That is female led relationship. Often you are not referred to as a slave, you are simply a negotiated submissive male in the relationship. I say negotiated because your partner is not going to know what is going on if you do domination phone sessions <\/a>telling a Mistress all about these desires. If your wife is not interested and you have no intention of ending your relationship, then you just have to accept that. There is no way I will offer advice on how to manipulate her into something she does not want. You should know, even a vanilla woman is not going to put up with it and will dismiss it as just another male mid life crisis. So, the cards must be placed on the table and be honest in what would make you happy. Now for your lesson.<\/p>\n

Negotiating A FLR<\/h3>\n

After it’s been decided, all she decides within the safety and respect for you both, you do all that she says. How would I do it? You would be naked while home all of the time with a cocklock or a cockring on. A slave collar <\/a>is in place and locked while at home. When you go out, you will wear a thick silver chain as a token of your slave mindset to your mistress. If mistress decides it is crossdressing<\/a> day, she may lay out your clothes for the day. All meals are cooked and provided by you. She may demand a foot rub, in which you stop whatever you are doing and proceed. All of the driving to places is done by you. Chastity training<\/a> most likely will occur several times a year or more. You will chaperone mistress everywhere, opening doors, pouring wine, offering shoulder massage. If mistress wants sex, you will give her sex. If mistress wants you to sleep at the foot of the bed you will do it. If you are denied orgasm<\/a> you will not complain. All things must be negotiated. Can you do this? Can you be a part of a FLR?<\/p>\n

Chastity Mistress Cassandra 1-800-730-7164<\/p>\n

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FLR A tendonitis flare up kept me off of the computer, but now I’m back. Be grateful, and yes I was thinking of you believe it or not \ud83d\ude42 Anyways, back to the soapbox. How to be the best submissive slave in a Femdom FLR. That is female led relationship. 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