{"id":976,"date":"2009-12-14T10:38:40","date_gmt":"2009-12-14T18:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/?p=976"},"modified":"2009-12-14T10:38:40","modified_gmt":"2009-12-14T18:38:40","slug":"on-chastity-inquiries-proper-protocol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/on-chastity-inquiries-proper-protocol\/","title":{"rendered":"On Chastity Inquiries: Proper Protocol"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><!--subscribe2--><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-979\" title=\"The Dicktator Mistress Cassandra 800-601-6975\" src=\"https:\/\/thedicktator.com\/cocklock\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/jpg-142x150.jpg\" alt=\"The Dicktator Mistress Cassandra 800-601-6975\" width=\"142\" height=\"150\" \/>Distance chastity training via phone and cam is a different breed of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.voxerotic.com\" target=\"_blank\">phone sex <\/a><\/strong>. <strong>Back in the 80&#8217;s when generic phone fucking started, it was the recordings of the heavy breathing type. 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It flourished in the phone fantasy world especially with the stroker being on cam. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sissyschool.com\" target=\"_blank\">Sissy training <\/a>has always been around. Crossdressers go way back in history. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Proper protocol is expected in approaching a Keyholder for the very first time:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read the site thoroughly and know what is expected of you before you send a letter of inquiry and submission. Do not instant message for information. It takes too long to explain the dynamics of chastity on msgr. I.M. is for contact while in chastity and for Mistress to spot check you. It is much better to send a daily email while in chastity so Mistress can post to her blog to share your progress. 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