A candid essay was written by my slave andre. It’s always good to listen from the male submissive point of view. Musings of a strap on slave is here and posted for your enjoyment and reflection.

Musings of a Strap On Slave : Ms Cassandra 1-800-730-7164

Strapons For Female Dominance

Next to the caricature of a leather clad goth woman wielding a whip, a strapon might be the most easily recognizable symbol of femdom to the vanilla minded of the world.  Unlike, chains, hoods, gags, and the many other easily identifiable trappings of bdsm, the strapon is unique to female dominance.  These implements all make for very evocative imagery.  Even those uninitiated to kink can easily tell what a strapon is for just from the sight of it.

Submissive Does Not Mean Weak

I certainly knew what it was for back when I was deceiving myself every day, pretending I wasn’t deep down drawn to being submissive. Not  wanting to be submissive, and I was always struggling to suppress my desires.  I wasn’t just frightened of strapons because I sensed that they might be painful to experience. It was terrifying of how emasculating it was to want to experience it.

Feeling Vulnerable But Merely Submitting

Being pegged is emasculating for me.  Every. Single. Time.  If anything, having experienced it before makes it more emasculating the next time because now I know how vulnerable it feels to be the one penetrated by a hot sexy amazing woman rather than the one who penetrates her.  Her strapon is bigger than I am.  A strapon can be manufactured bigger than any mortal man.  Unlike a fallible flesh and blood cock, strapons never have performance anxiety, they don’t have to get hard, and no matter what they always stay hard.  You can psych out a man, you can make him shrivel.  The strapon is impervious.

Don’t Tell Your Masculine Friends

It’s emasculating that the source of life long pride, bragging, and anxiety for men can be outclassed by something cheaply constructed and bought off the shelf for any girl to use.  It’s not a cliché that men worry about, brag about, and joke about dick size.  If any of my male friends knew I enjoyed being the one fucked and pounded from behind, they would definitely mock me.  Even the ones who pretended to “be cool about it” would respect me way less for it.

Overcoming The Fear

Having overcome my fears and actually experienced pegging, there is no turning back for me.  I love it!  I’m not ashamed of it at all.  It’s incredibly pleasurable, and any man who is afraid to try it should consider it.  Consider it if only to experience the truly satisfying, intoxicating, earth shattering orgasm that can come with pegging. (see what I did there?) Pegging can be mind blowing.  I can still replay some of the orgasms months later in my head.

Leading Into Chastity

Perhaps most importantly, being fucked by a woman can be an incredibly intimate and romantic encounter.  It requires the submissive to be vulnerable for their partner, letting her have her way with them. I love sharing that with a woman.  A dominant can find joy in how empowering it feels as she thrusts her cock inside a willing sub, teasing them, caressing them, guiding them to an intoxicating orgasm.  Strapon play can even provide sex in those femdom relationships where a dominant prefers her submissive locked in chastity long term.  He can’t get hard, but by slipping into a strapon harness, she can fuck him.  Perhaps a woman wants to fuck her cuckold, but he’s not allowed to penetrate her.  Strapon play can enrich so many femdom dynamics.

A Step Into Cuckolding and Sissification

Any man (or pet, or sissy, or beta cuckold) should consider themselves lucky to have a woman in their life who wants to peg them.  It’s an awesome gift to receive that much pleasure.  It’s a pleasure so intense, it can’t easily be replicated on your own with a toy.  Submissives should pamper their pegging Femdom, show gratitude, and remember that boys aren’t the only ones who might feel some anxiety or shame over this kink.  Just like a lot of men feel like pegging is emasculating because they aren’t the ones penetrating their partner, women might also find the role reversal aspect of pegging to be awkward or shameful.  Subs should consider the needs of their dominant, reminding her that she is awesome to have earned their trust for something so intimate, and that there is nothing wrong with a woman enjoying or feeling empowered by strapping on a long thick hard dick and making her sub into her quivering whimpering little bitch.

Musings of a strap on slave shows the great respect this boy has learned to express.

Mistress Cassandra 1-800-730-7164