In the D/s subculture, for every Mistress, there are a dozen or more submissives. A submissive must be comely, personable, physically fit, and intelligent. A submissive must be service oriented, chivalrous, and successful. A Mistress does not want a slave with alot of baggage, 12 step problems, unemployed, a needy PITA, or one unversed in the protocol of serving a superior Woman.
Friday night is Venus Femdom night once a month at the local bdsm club I belong to. I interviewed slave steve for chastity training and found him to be a very animated and well versed in protocol, so W/we will discuss further as I had to leave early for an early morning commitment. I’m not sure if I mentioned the asshat that followed Me up the hill after last month’s munch did I? he was there as well. I told sissy shari and the head Mistress about his behavior , following Me up the hill in his car. I thought he lived up the street, but saw him turn around staring at Me as he drove down the hill. Is that VANILLA pick up crap or what? Maybe, but it gave Me the creeps as he saw My car and license plates. This what NOT to do if you want to impress a Mistress. Anyways, he approached Me at the party in this rather passive aggressive fashion and I told him why he could never serve Me. he began to argue about his reasons as to why he followed Me up the hill. I dismissed him right there telling him that he needed a good paddling and to find someone else to do it. As I was leaving an hour later, no hard feelings , I said good bye to him as I did everyone else. Another no no…he gave Me a cold dirty look . The lesson is : step up to the plate and admit you are wrong and then learn from it and correct it. This is a very undesirable submissive who needs to learn alot in classes before he can approach a Domme.
I’ll get off the soapbox now. To you who sent Me the indood herb grower: please check that order because it hasnt arrived yet. I have no idea who you are but thank you so much ahead of time! 🙂 On the subject of prezzies!!!!!! My Madonna latex dress from Syren has arrived. It fits beautifully! chastie also sent the Control dvd and Breakfast on Pluto, along with latex gloves ,a rhinestone lock, Wolford thigh highs and panties. munybagzmunson sent the red leather Clava purse and the fab retro Betsy Johnson shoes! There is more to come, some wrist and ankle restraints and a high tech toy manual, and a caning and cropping manual! Woohoo 🙂 Definitely the perks of chastity training and cock control !
On the sissy front : hanahotlips did a 2 hr call with Me last night, making the slut cum over 5 times. After the call she decided to buy Me a pair of Milani fetish boots and make Me some rum balls . Life is good!
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Mistress, i agree absolutely. A sub should not in any way distract the Mistress, intentionally or unintentionally. The sub should be invisible at all times, but at the same time attentive when required by The Mistress. It is particularly important for the sub to not place psychological pressure on the Mistress, because that is a form of overt pressure in itself, and is not to be tolerated.
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