The Power Of Femdom
A good submissive male is a treasure to find. No games will be played, no topping from the bottom, and boundaries between both Femdom and submissive will be negotiated. Negotiations are very important because without these, there will be many misunderstandings and unsatisfied expectations. With erotic phone sessions, much work is carved out for the submissive for him to become the Femdom’s worthy submissive male.
The Femdom’s Worthy Submissive Male
Prior real time experience is a plus for the sub male. He has seen a Mistress of his choice and has performed to his best ability because he is submissive by nature. Seeking out a Mistress is his first step as his obsession with the lifestyle becomes very important. He may have had a relationship at one time, and vanilla simply will not work anymore. He needs to be under the hand of a dominant woman. His nature is submissive and he will not be happy with a submissive or vanilla woman in a conventional relationship. Below is a quote from a submissive who has called me and gets it:
“It feels wonderful to be honest about who I am and how I feel with someone dominant who understands my submissive desires. That is something I don’t get to share that with just anybody. Connection with a fascinating dominant woman is really my primary interest in calling, being able to be myself and interact with someone with similar interests who can guide my development as a submissive servile man.”
FLR Loves Chastity
Praise of Femdom is a major part of FLR. At this point, this boy will be in and out of chastity, wearing his cage at home. He will be surprised on each call depending on my mood where it will lead:
“I enjoy both sensual domination and humiliation. I like not knowing whether I will be treated cruelly or kindly is up to a woman’s mood. It’s exciting to find out. Dominas who embrace different moods or tastes and explore themselves in the role are more interesting than a Domina who plays a dominant role or stock archetype. I think it’s healthy when a dominant woman knocks me down a peg or breaks down my ego. ”
The Femdom’s worthy submissive male found his way to my phone line. It’s now time to think about all of the delicious things I will have this boy do for me, and what I will do to him.
Mistress Cassandra 1-800-730-7164
I agree that a submissive who knows how to serve and not fuck around playing games is a treasure indeed. Even though we do have to be strict to keep bitches from thinking they can get the upper hand, secretly (and often publicly) we express our appreciation for these subs with enough self-control and commitment to be valuable.
Now I’m going to draft up a contract for this by Ms Piper 🙂
Perfectly timed blog post Ms Cassandra!
I was having a conversation with someone on twitter about what a Domme looks for in a submissive.
I was giving that sub some tips on ways to behave. You are absolutely right that a good submissive is a TREASURE!
Thank you Ms Olivia! I always treasure your advice and comments!
Female lead relationship with women is what’s best and needed for me, especially if they have me wearing bras and panties underneath my clothes along with women’s clothes. I have friend who took pictures of me her phone dressed up as a girl and now she’s selling women’s clothes and said she wants me to buy them from her all the time. The only negative is she’s married but told me not to worry about her husband or care what others think. Hopefully when I ask her she will want me to go with her shopping dressed up holding her purse and shopping bags along with helping me pick out lipsticks and try them on my lips.
Most sissies prefer FLR. it makes the sissy feel more girlie and taken care of Paulina .
A true dominant is both rare and wonderful because she can appreciate those submissive desires as something to be treasured and cultivated under her direction. That submissive training can benefit both herself and her loyal boy. I’m sure I am not the only boy who is grateful to you for guidance and control. It is so insightful to read your perspective on what makes a sub worthy of your time and attention and how you view negotiation, boundaries, and chastity in a femdom lead relationship. I will work diligently to be a worthy submissive in your eyes, Mistress Cassandra.
Beautifully said. I’m looking forward to many surprises in our training! I definitely have plans and surprises for you.
Thank you Mistress! I am excited for your plans to train me. Please mold me into the submissive you desire.
Chastity is only the beginning. Since you like to write, check out my signature on email “blogs by my boys”. Check them out and commit only if you have time. We will discuss next time we talk. Happy Friday!